If I were Chuck I would never ever put my penis back on Blair knowing she slept with Humdrum Humphrey.

mike-montgomerys:

wendlas-bergmanns:

fireflieschaser:

if i were blair, i would never let chuck put his penis in me knowing he slept with vanessa

~~and half of manhattan~~

ok Chuck slept with Vanessa. Blair’s sworn enemy. and he fucking slept with Jenny. so stop it. this is bullshit. the latter action committed by Chuck devastated Blair but she accepted Chuck afterwards because he was sorry and she loved him. I may call myself a Chair fan and you may call yourself a Chair fans but all of you guys making derogatory statements against Blair because she’s exercising her sexual freedom just makes me embarrassed for this fanbase overall. sexual freedom, which many women have fought for for centuries and 3 different waves of feminism within the 20th century alone, to be equal with men so that they don’t have to be esteemed by sexual conducts or preferences by rather but their others capacities in arenas such as intellect, humor, political aptness, leadership, macro management and so on, and not what they have to offer physically. you know why? because sexualilty shouldn’t be a measure of someone’s character, it’s a freedom. Unless it crosses a moral line such as adultery, non-consensual activities, it should never be a grade assigned to a person. Freedom means, it’s up to the person’s deliberation and it shouldn’t disadvantage them in society.. I am very disappointed in those of you who choose to debase Blair for abilitating her said freedom, when i can freely assume that most of you supporting this post are of female gender. I couldn’t more disappointed that you are putting this stigma of ‘whore’ on yourself. People have spent blood, sweat and tears for this to be a non-issue in the 21st century. I’m disturbed as well as disgusted to hear young girls such as yourselves hold that against someone. Yes, a long time ago, it used to be a stigma because women weren’t allowed to offer anything but their beauty, domesticity and sexuality. That’s why it was so important for women to preserve this virtue for their partners because it was their self-worth since they had nothing else of worth to offer. That’s why the gap between the whore and the virgin ( a kept woman) was so pronounced. sexual conduct defined women. can you imagine being defined by what you represent to someone physically rather than who you are in total? no longer does that matter because we have proven we are equal match for men in all the realms they deemed us inferior and even incapable at times.

i would never call Chuck a whore despite his sexual behavior because, sex is his freedom and i don’t think i should stigmatize him as one or the other. He doesn’t have to be a virgin (a kept man) and he doesn’t have to be a whore, he’s just Chuck, whatever that means. And Chuck has slept with hundreds of women but i’m not gonna hold that against him. I find it hypocritical that Blair is being criticized so harshly for simply experimenting. No i’m not a fan of Dan and Blair. But it’s so disappointing that she has to be judge for doing that. That’s doesn’t make her a slut and that doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve Chuck. How is Chuck any better than Blair in the sexual behavior department? what saintly thing has Chuck done to deserve superiority to Blair. This hypocrisy is burning me. I just have a problem with women who degrade other women for exercising their well earned freedom without the consequences of judgment. When are you guys going to fair to yourself? Enough men treat you this way. Why do you want to treat yourself and other women this way? Calling Blair a slut or whatever is aslo depreciating your sexual freedom. As a girl, you’re saying you don’t deserve to have sexual freedom without consequences and that your sexual conduct defines you? this is not the 19th century. accept yourself. Be pogressive.

if you don’t like my words, feel free to reply to me. i just wanted to state my opinion because i am extremely uncomfortable with girls not acknowledging their worth as females. you were ambiguous, if you didn’t mean to call Blair a “whore”. don’t take this post personally. It pertains to what you said and i just wanted to adress my dash